When selecting a club, you want to select one where most of the women are. To do this, you can try and hit as many clubs as possible and check out the action for yourself or you can ask your friends that frequent the nightclub scene. However, what they consider a great place to meet women may not necessarily be the best place to go. You might also ask the door man upon arriving, what’s the best night for action. Also, while you’re there, inquire if they have a ladies night when ladies drink free or get a discount on their drinks. These specials attract women to clubs like crazy! So, don’t stay home when there’s a ladies night!
When shopping around for a club, don’t make the fatal mistake of judging a club on the basis of one night. Certain nights can just be an off night. This is normal and happens at all clubs.
Don’t waste your time going to a club where there’s mostly men. The more women there are, the chances are greatly increased of you meeting someone.
You may want to select an exclusive membership club if you can afford it. Just make it a point to take an introductory tour. Sometimes it’s free or you pay a cover charge to check it out.
Conventional clubs are just as good, if not better. The majority of people might not be upperclass and rich but this will be to your advantage and I will explain why. An upperclass, high society jet-setter nightclub woman is usually narcissistic and self-centered and if you don’t have money you’re just scum of the earth. There are exceptions to the rule, however.
Your conventional club is your best bet in my opinion. Here you will find a variety of women, the successful and barely-making-it, sales clerks, beautiful women, secretaries, cute women, waitresses, and your average “Plain Jane.”
They all have the same thing in common and that is to get out on that dance floor and shed their inhibitions and most important of all, to meet a guy like yourself.
In conclusion, find a nightclub where the greatest number of women are and that you feel comfortable in and keep going there as often as possible. Make an effort to meet as many people as possible, including other men. After all, guys know women and they can introduce you to their female friends, relatives, and co-workers. By going to this place often, you will become a familiar face and you will be amazed at the number of friends and acquaintances you will make. So get out there and make the rounds and find yourself a good nightclub. Just keep going to this nightclub and see if your social life doesn’t improve dramatically.
Also, I might add, don’t just go to a few nightclubs when selecting a nightclub. Go to all of them so you can make a good comparison as to which ones are the best. Some nightclubs are good only on a particular night. Find out what night that is and make an effort to be there every week.
I know you have heard various comments in books, media, etc. about nightclubs being one of the worst places to look for a relationship or a wife. A lot of my male friends have met real nice women and had satisfying relationships with women they have met in nightclubs.
So, don’t rule out nightclubs as good place to meet women. Try several different methods of meeting women. Don’t put all your eggs in one basket and use nightclubs solely for the purpose of meeting the opposite sex.
Some men make the fatal mistake of carrying a negative attitude with them when they go to nightclubs. They think that all the women there are just a bunch of bitches. This attitude can prevent you from meeting someone really nice. There are some really nice women in night¬clubs that will treat you with respect. Also, a lot of women are looking for a special guy to love.